Rethinking School

How to Take Charge of Your Child's Education

by Susan Wise Bauer

Number of pages: 288

Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company

BBB Library: Education

ISBN: 978-0393285963



About the Author

Susan Wise Bauer is a writer, educator, and historian. She has a Ph.D. in American Studies from the College of William & Mary in Virginia, as well as an M.A. in seventeenth-century literature and a Master of Divinity in Ancient Near Eastern Languages and Literature.

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Editorial Review

Our K–12 school system is an artificial product of market forces. It isn’t a good fit for all-or even most-students. It prioritizes a single way of understanding the world over all others, pushes children into a rigid set of grades with little regard for individual maturity, and slaps “disability” labels over differences in learning style. Thousands of educators, policy-makers, and thinkers are at work on school reform. But our school system is so huge that reform movements are equally huge, dispersed, and unfocused. And since school reform isn’t happening soon enough to make a difference to you and your child, you’ll have to take control of the K-12 years yourself and use your ingenuity to bend the system to fit your child. 

Book Reviews

“Bauer’s guide to the various options available to struggling kids, inside and outside the educational system, will be both comforting and instructive to their parents.”—Publishers Weekly

“A welcome operator’s manual for parents of school-age children, inside or outside the K-12 paradigm.”—Kirkus Reviews

“The balance of firsthand stories of school failure combined with the author’s own experiences and practical tips make this book very straightforward and informative.”—Library Journal Reviews

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Wisdom to Share

Our current school system was designed to produce good workers for a capitalistic society. Built inextricably into that model is the assumption that “real intelligence consists of a capacity for a certain type of deductive reasoning…what we come to think of as academic ability.”

You’ll have to take control of the K-12 years yourself and use your ingenuity to bend the system to fit your child.

If your child is struggling, there may be an incompatibility between their maturity level and the grade/year of school in which they’re placed.

Remember that the problem is a mismatch between the system and the student, not a deficiency in your child. Diagnose it but then use these strategies to work the system to fit your child.

Before you start requesting changes, make sure you’re standing on solid ground.

Research proved that homework only teaches self-discipline if parents, not teachers, systemically structure and supervise homework with that goal in mind—a pattern that many families simply cannot follow.

Children aren’t miniature adults. Requiring them to deal with adult levels of pressure isn’t good teaching or parenting.

The best learning happens when students are working with, not against, their natural wiring. But education too often becomes a long struggle against their inborn inclinations.

There comes a point when you’ve flexed the system as hard as you can—and it still doesn’t fit. If the fit is bad enough, dare to step out.

True appreciation of the value of education only comes with maturity. For many children, something has to click in the brain before they become self-motivated, engaged learners. In the meantime, you need to be a little crafty in how you teach.

Realize that the way we do school is entirely unnatural. And when your child struggles, think about how to flex the system before you start adjusting the child.