Sparks

How Parents Can Help Ignite the Hidden Strengths of Teenagers

by Peter L. Benson

Number of pages: 235

Publisher: Jossey-Bass

BBB Library: Parenting

ISBN: 978-0-470-29404-8



About the Author

Peter L. Benson is one of the world's leading authorities on positive human development. His work has inspired and guided more than 600 community-based youth development initiatives in 45 states, in every Canadian province, and on 6 continents.

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Editorial Review

Sparks—when illuminated and nurtured—give young people joy, energy, and direction. They have the power to change a young person’s life from one of “surviving” to “thriving.” Grounded in new research with thousands of teenagers and parents, Sparks offers a step-by-step approach to helping teenagers discover their unique gifts, and works for all families, no matter their economic status, parenting situation, or ethnic background.  

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“Benson offers a variety of resources for parents as well as children who want to find out more about the many different aspects of discovering a talent and how one should pursue it, depending on their age group.” — The Star Online

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Wisdom to Share

1.We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside of us there's something valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our touch… Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.

1.Success is not easy. It takes hard word, it takes persistence, and, in the best of all circumstances, it takes relationships… Life is all about relationships, the ones that you form and the ones that form you.

1.Success is not easy. It takes hard word, it takes persistence, and, in the best of all circumstances, it takes relationships… Life is all about relationships, the ones that you form and the ones that form you.

1. It takes courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are.

1. Every teenager has one or more sparks. Sometimes the spark is hidden or dormant, but it is there.

1. Sparks can change. A spark at age sixteen may look different from a spark at twelve.

1. Sparks are not learned. They originate from inside a person and are discovered and nourished through experience.

1. The hallmark of spark is not happiness or pleasure, but passion.

1. Every parent has the capacity to be a spark champion.

1. The better you model a life with sparks, the more likely it is that your child will develop a life with spark at the center.

1. A person's spark is his unique song. Remember to hum it back to your teenager on days when he doesn't remember it.

1. Your teen needs not only you as a spark champion but other adults as well.

1. Trust the spark.

1. Ask the question: "Now that you know your spark, how can you use it to make life better for others?"