Raising Self-Reliant Children in a Self-Indulgent World
Seven Building Blocks for Developing Capable Young People
Editorial Review
By many standards, the world is a much better today than it was forty years ago. Still, in the past, we could assume that children growing up, if they survived physically, would be equipped with the capabilities to act in their own behalf and pursue opportunities as adults. Today, when the world offers far more and greater opportunities for achievement and success than ever before, the rising generation seems less capable than the generation of the thirties to take advantage of the opportunities open to them. It is clear that some of the fundamental values that served us so well in the past are absent or severely underdeveloped in a large percentage of young people.
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Wisdom to Share
Our job on behalf of our children today is to equip them with the capabilities that no longer accrue automatically from daily life.
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