It’s Not Just Who You Know

Transform Your Life (and Your Organization) by Turning Colleagues and Contacts into Lasting, Genuine Relationships

by Tommy Spaulding

Number of pages: 320

Publisher: Crown Business

BBB Library: Communication

ISBN: 9780307589132



About the Author

Spaulding is president of a national leadership development, consulting, coaching and speaking organization. He became the youngest president of the world-renowned leadership organization, Up with People (2005–2008). In 2000, Spaulding founded Leader’s Challenge; a major high-school leadership program.

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Editorial Review

You can’t win long-term loyal friends and customers just by smiling, remembering people’s names, and paying compliments. It’s not all about you. At every turn, the most powerful benchmarks of success involve relationships in which focus is on helping others. That type of focus generates what we call Return on Relationships (ROR) and the power of ROR is great and varied. For the individual, it’s not only a quicker path up the corporate ladder but a more joyful, fulfilling experience along the way. For the community, it’s greater outreach, more sincere participation, and, most of all, a positive force of change.

Book Reviews

"Spaulding takes Dale Carnegie’s classic philosophy to the next level—how to create lasting relationships that go well beyond mere superficial contacts and “second floor” relationships." - Barnes and Noble

"Building effective relationships is absolutely crucial for success in product management." -Lead on Purpose

"In this candid, revealing book, Tommy expands upon the principles that Dale Carnegie outlined 75 years ago, and shows us how to take them one step further to accomplish the impossible in our lives and careers." - St. Meyer and Hubbard

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